12 Practical Strategies for Emotional Wellness
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An AI-Integrated Emotional Wellness™ Perspective
Principal Consultant and Creator, AI-Integrated Emotional Wellness™
The National Center defines emotional wellness as the awareness, understanding, and acceptance of our feelings—and the ability to effectively manage challenges and change. It also reflects our capacity to sublimate: to harness painful emotional energy from adversity and channel it into action—not merely to survive but to thrive.
AI-Integrated Emotional Wellness (AIEW) refers to the ethical and responsible interface between the cognitive abilities of artificial intelligence and the depth, uniqueness, and complexity of human emotion. While AI can provide accessible, evidence-based strategies, tools, and support to promote emotional well-being, AIEW recognizes a fundamental truth: authentic, face-to-face human presence remains irreplaceable—and essential—for emotional wellness.
As an AI-Integrated Emotional Wellness™ consultant, I'm frequently asked for practical strategies and tools to promote emotional well-being. While the Center's Emotional Wellness Library provides clinical, evidence-based resources that empower both people and AI with accessible information, knowledge, and techniques, I recognize that people are often looking for simple strategies they can use in their daily lives.
Following is a concise list of things you can do for yourself. Please share these with your friends and loved ones:
1. Become aware of your feelings and try to label them (e.g., “I’m feeling nervous,” “I’m feeling sad,” "I'm feeling angry," "I'm feeling alone," etc.).
2. Try to identify your thoughts and how they precipitate your feelings (e.g., “I’ve been thinking about what she said to me—and I’m feeling angry.”) This process can give you back a sense of control. AIEW can help provide accessible, evidence-based strategies to identify patterns in your thinking—and provide you with direction.
3. Accept that your feelings are not right or wrong; they just are. It's been said that when one denies their feelings, they deny the truth.
4. After labeling a feeling, consciously slow down and think before you act; make goal-directed choices.
5. Realize that you can choose your focus—what you think about. Here's one of my favorite quotes: "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way." —Dr. Viktor E. Frankl. I'm choosing to write to you.
6. If you find yourself thinking repetitively about something that's causing you emotional discomfort (i.e., ruminating), identify the thought and try to dismiss it (e.g., “Stop it. This isn't productive") and replace it with a healthy thought (e.g., "I'll focus on being my best self."
7. Know that it’s okay not to be okay during challenges and change. Allow yourself to experience normal reactions in the face of an atypical or abnormal event.
8. If you're grappling with uncomfortable thoughts and feelings, change what you're doing. For example, take a walk. Exercise. Listen to music. Read. Watch a documentary. Speak with a friend or family member, write about emotional wellness, etc.
9. Speak with people with whom you can share your thoughts and feelings—people who listen more than they speak. Rely on genuine interpersonal face-to-face communication. AIEW is grounded in this principle: while AI can provide accessible information and support, authentic, face-to-face human presence is irreplaceable—and essential for emotional well-being.
10. Have the benefit of speaking with a counselor or therapist. PsychologyToday is a great database to help you find someone in your area.
11. Explore how chatbots and virtual therapists can be an adjunct to mental health care. Remember that while AI can provide immediate, accessible, evidence-based support, it's most effective when we integrate it with genuine human connection—AI-Integrated Emotional Wellness.
12. As I've encouraged people to do for nearly four decades in the greatest career, strive to become the person you would ideally like to be.